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I tried learning to drive when I was 15 but we couldn't afford driving lessons. I took some driving lessons but I'm rather uncoordinated. I also suffer from Adult ADD so I get distracted very easily. I get around on public transportation. I used to live in Shoreline, Washington and commuted to Seattle on the bus. I now live in Bountiful, Utah and commute to Salt Lake City. The bus service here isn't as good as it was in Washington. I've traveled quite a bit--much of it car free. I've gone around some cities in Europe on the bus and the trains. I've taken my cats to the vets on the bus--and sometimes I've taken them in cabs. A year ago I took a trip to Alaska and never got into a car. I got on the bus and went to the airport and flew to Seattle. Then I took a bus to the flight museum and then a bus into town and walked to my motel. The next morning I took a bus to the airport and rode a charter to Vancouver. Then I boarded a Cruise Ship. I took a train ride in British, Columbia. At the end of the cruise I got on a bus and went to the airport and flew to Salt Lake City and then rode a bus to Bountiful. I traveled over 4,000 miles never getting into a car. There are a lot of people who drive who shouldn't be driving. At least I know that I would not be a safe driver. Usually I find my own way around. Sometimes I ask for a ride--but normally I depend on myself to get places. I've learned to use my time on busses--reading, napping, listening to music, talking to other passengers. I've found my way around a number of large cities on the bus--Vancouver, BC, Detroit, Michigan, London, England, Portland, Oregon. I am rather troubled by the lack of respect shown to pedestrians. Often crosswalks are placed miles apart. There are places where there isn't a crosswalk. Recently I got Utah ID and had to ride the bus and then walk a ways to get to the Driver's License Dept. There were not stop signs, traffic lights or cross walks. I have been places where there are no sidewalks. Also at some intersectins there are so many little side roads and it is pretty scary trying to cross. I was recently hit by a white pickup truck and when I submitted my bills to my medical insurance I was told that my auto insurance had to pay first. I explained I had no auto insurance because I don't drive. I was told the driver's auto insurance had to pay. I sought him out for three months but I am not able to find out who it is because it was a hit and run and am now appealing my medical insurance with proof that the driver who hit me (deliberately) cannot be identified. Meanwhile I have providers coming after me threatening me with collection agencies. If I drove I could have submitted it right to my auto insurance. I find there is descrimination against non-drivers.
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Re: My introduction
Mon, June 29, 2009 - 11:19 AMHi, Cat! Welcome to the group!
I'm a 46 year-old non-driver, who lives in Florida. You mentioned Detroit, MI.? I
was born in the Detroit area! The bus system there, IMO, leaves much to be desired,
compared to the buses here in South Florida. But buses are a great way to get around
down here, especially in the winter, when the weather is generally clear, crisp and
dry. Summer, on the other hand, is a whole different story! Here at this time of
year, we get horrendous heat and humidity, and seemingly RELENTLESS, lightning-
infested thunderstorms almost every day (not to mention the possibility of a
HURRICANE or two sweeping by!), which makes bus travel often trying, and at times,
downright DANGEROUS! Just ask anyone who's been NEARLY hit by lightning, while
waiting for a bus to "come to his/her rescue!"
Speaking of danger, the drivers here in this neck of the woods, are also dangerous,
especially to pedestrians, bicyclists, and other non-drivers. Only in New York City,
are motorists crazier than down here! It seems to me, that most (but NOT all)
drivers are "programmed" to "discriminate" against those who do NOT drive, and this
"prejudice" is just as ingrained in human society as racial and/or class prejudice
is. It DOESN'T have to be that way, but, unfortunately, that's just the way it
is...YOU, ME, NOBODY...CAN EVER CHANGE THE WORLD! It's just something we must
accept, no matter how painful it is, as we simply live our lives the best way we
can.
Although I'm older now, I STILL plan on earning a driver's license, as it now
appears that my mental "problems" may NOT be as severe as originally thought, at
least according to someone I had a talk with at a local mental health facility
recently, so, if I think I can, I KNOW I can do it...and I'll go ahead and DO IT,
BUT...maybe I'll still settle for a cheap little motor scooter, INSTEAD of a
car...I'll just have to "wait and see..." Que serra, serra...
Wish me the best of luck...I'll wish you good luck, too! Have a nice day! ;-)